The Fixer: Zothile Manqele

Zothile Manqele is a qualified CA(SA) with a hard worker attitude and defines herself as a fixer. She is 26 years old and very work oriented. Her life long dream is to build a work environment that is sustainable for black people. She grew up in a small town called Ulundi and she believes that…

Zoleka’s story from abuse and neglect to victory and restoration

This week’s podcast is a sit down with Zoleka Hatitongwe. She is the director of Upsurge which is an accommodation and volunteer service based in Cape Town. You can find the website here and the facebook page here. She is also the brains behind Phenomenal Women Africa. She shares her story from being in an abusive relationship,…

What daddy taught us and why you should not spend money on a man?

This week on the podcast we are continuing from where we left in the last episode of #TheTalk, l had with my friends we cover daddy issues and the good father figures we have had in our lives from great brothers and wise uncles #therealmvps. We also talk about how love is expressed through actions and…

What our EXs​ taught​ us

There say that there are never mistakes just lessons, in this weekend podcast we are sharing the lessons we learnt from past mistakes relationships. We don’t regret them because we have grown up and learnt from our EXs. This podcast is deep, and we were open and honest with you. We covered so much from being…

Lessons I Have Learnt So Far In My Twenties

In this episode, I share some of the lessons I have learnt in my twenties. These include self-love, being your own hero and the art of investing in yourself.     Other platforms you can listen on and subscribe on. Buzzsprout Itunes Podcast Sound Cloud Stitcher   Let me know what your thoughts are in…

Insecurities

I just finished watching the series Insecure by Issa Rae. I know, I know that I am late to the party. The show is about modern day black women. Usually, black women are described as strong and confident (#blackgirlmagic) but Molly and Issa are the opposite of that description. As best friends dealing with real…

Lara’s story and Financial Abuse

Hello, Enchanted Fam. I just finished reading the Silent Wife by Kerry Fisher. It’s a thriller based on two-second wives to Italian Brothers. I would recommend this book to anyone who likes suspense as it is a book filled with unexpected twists and turns. However, for this post, we will focus on Lara who is…

I will love you as long as…

Healthy relationships are built on love, trust, compromise, and sacrifice. Do you have a boundary or conditions on what you will accept from your partners for your relationship to remain healthy and happy? A condition or boundary in this context will be the actions, behaviours, and attitudes that you deem are damaging to your mental, emotional…

I love you as long as…

Healthy relationships are built on love, trust, compromise, and sacrifice. Do you have a boundary or conditions on what you will accept from your partners in order for your relationship to remain healthy and happy? A condition or boundary in this context will be the actions, behaviors, and attitudes that you deem are damaging to your…

Trust Your Intuition

Your intuition is that little voice that tells you something is not right or a nagging sensation that you cannot explain. It may even be an uneasy feeling you have when you are with someone. Intuition is defined as the ability to understand something instinctively, without the need for conscious reasoning. Our minds have conscious and…