Zoleka’s story from abuse and neglect to victory and restoration

This week’s podcast is a sit down with Zoleka Hatitongwe. She is the director of Upsurge which is an accommodation and volunteer service based in Cape Town. You can find the website here and the facebook page here. She is also the brains behind Phenomenal Women Africa. She shares her story from being in an abusive relationship, […]

Enchanted by a illusion

A true story from an anonymous subscriber I never understood why someone would stay in an abusive relationship; it made no sense to me. I knew about abuse, had watched movies about it and read books on it. I would sit there and wonder why and how anyone could stay in a relationship that was […]

Healthy vs Unhealthy relationships

I am a romantic, I am not afraid to say it. I believe in happily ever after just like in all the fairy tales I grew up reading. Just to clarify I do not believe in perfect relationships but in a love where l am happy and so in my partner. Happiness is defined differently […]

Enchanted at the library

We bonded over our mutual love of books and good coffee. He was different because he liked classics, he was a perfect gentleman always carrying my books, opening the door and pulling the chair out for me. He had a way of making me feel comfortable and he always looked at me as if I was the only girl in the room.