Brave heart chronicles 

Part two But I’m just a church girl tired of all The junk coming at me So I’m putting it out there Oh but for that brother keeping his cool Who knows his own mind I want to tell you that I won’t wait   I mean it I can’t wait For that moment When…

Poetry: Brave heart chronicles 

Part two But I’m just a church girl tired of all The junk coming at me So I’m putting it out there Oh but for that brother keeping his cool Who knows his own mind I want to tell you that I won’t wait   I mean it I can’t wait For that moment When…

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Broken by words

By a subscriber who wants to remain private. I spent many years in an abusive relationship, the mental and verbal abuse had broken me and my confidence was at an all-time low. I felt worthless and like l was lucky to have someone in my life even if he was wrong for me I thought…

Enchanted by a illusion

A true story from an anonymous subscriber I never understood why someone would stay in an abusive relationship; it made no sense to me. I knew about abuse, had watched movies about it and read books on it. I would sit there and wonder why and how anyone could stay in a relationship that was…

Cycle of Abuse

What makes an imperfect relationship different from an abusive one is this cycle of abuse.
The cycle of abuse refers to the continuous and repetition of harmful acts of violence. Think of it as a cycle of a bicycle that keeps on going when it’s peddled. It is a pattern that will happen many times in a relationship.
The image is a summary of the traits of an abusive relationship

Brave heart 

Part one When you speak to me Your speech is encrypted A system code that I cannot decrypt Oh but I noticed you’ve since adopted the habit of trying to take my heart on a trip to soothe your ego I’m done collecting hope and making excuses for you My head hears you but my…

Enchanted by the glitter 

Alice was part of the praise and worship team at my church, she was stunning and had the voice of an angel but that is not what attracted me to her. It was her understanding and sympathy. From the day we met, we had a similar background, problems, and visions. We would sit for hours…

Healthy vs Unhealthy relationships

I am a romantic, I am not afraid to say it. I believe in happily ever after just like in all the fairy tales I grew up reading. Just to clarify I do not believe in perfect relationships but in a love where l am happy and so in my partner. Happiness is defined differently…

Enchanted at the library

We bonded over our mutual love of books and good coffee. He was different because he liked classics, he was a perfect gentleman always carrying my books, opening the door and pulling the chair out for me. He had a way of making me feel comfortable and he always looked at me as if I was the only girl in the room.

Castles in the air

I was the princess, you were the knight in shining amour and our castle was in the clouds….