Spilling the tea on our worst dates ever!

Dating is not easy and in this weeks episode l am joined by my girls Pretty and Nompilo and we are dishing the dirt on our worst dates from blind dates, awkward sessions, cockroach invasion, counselling sessions, and tinder dates gone wrong. We hope you find these true stories, funny, heart warming and you learn…

Insecurities

I just finished watching the series Insecure by Issa Rae. I know, I know that I am late to the party. The show is about modern day black women. Usually, black women are described as strong and confident (#blackgirlmagic) but Molly and Issa are the opposite of that description. As best friends dealing with real…

Lara’s story and Financial Abuse

Hello, Enchanted Fam. I just finished reading the Silent Wife by Kerry Fisher. It’s a thriller based on two-second wives to Italian Brothers. I would recommend this book to anyone who likes suspense as it is a book filled with unexpected twists and turns. However, for this post, we will focus on Lara who is…

I will love you as long as…

Healthy relationships are built on love, trust, compromise, and sacrifice. Do you have a boundary or conditions on what you will accept from your partners for your relationship to remain healthy and happy? A condition or boundary in this context will be the actions, behaviours, and attitudes that you deem are damaging to your mental, emotional…

I love you as long as…

Healthy relationships are built on love, trust, compromise, and sacrifice. Do you have a boundary or conditions on what you will accept from your partners in order for your relationship to remain healthy and happy? A condition or boundary in this context will be the actions, behaviors, and attitudes that you deem are damaging to your…

Trust Your Intuition

Your intuition is that little voice that tells you something is not right or a nagging sensation that you cannot explain. It may even be an uneasy feeling you have when you are with someone. Intuition is defined as the ability to understand something instinctively, without the need for conscious reasoning. Our minds have conscious and…

Slow Fade

The change from perfect to abuse is very slow and gradual the person going through it may not realize or they could be in denial or they could be holding on to the memory of Mr/Miss perfect waiting for them to reappear.

How relationships turn abusive

The change from perfect to abuse is very slow and gradual the person going through it may not realize or they could be in denial or they could be holding on to the memory of Mr/Miss perfect waiting for them to reappear.

The perfect valentines gift

Its Valentine’s day soon and the pressure is on to get the right present for your boyfriend, girlfriends, husband or wife (that’s if you haven’t already.)  Getting the perfect gift is not always easy, especially if you have been together for a long time. There are the standard gifts you can go with, for example,…

Quiz time: Is it love or control?

Love can be confusing and sometimes you know someone loves you but you have this nagging feeling that something is not right but you cannot put your finger on it. Or perhaps you have an idea that something your partner is doing is wrong but you need confirmation then take this quiz and find out……